International Mankini Challenge

Statements about travelling & backpacking that drive me mad!

by malph on Jan.28, 2010, under Other Mankini News

I love backpacking around the world. The chance to travel to new countries, meet new people, better understand what the world actually is and undertake experiences that make me feel truely alive. Add to this the International Mankini Challenge and the last 13 months of my life have been one of the most fun, daring and enjoyable I’ve had. I also love to share my experiences and the knowledge I’ve gained with others, when asked (last thing I want to be is a travel bore), hoping it will inspire them to take the plunge and reap the benefits of backpacking. However there are three things I hear uttered by new, naive and/or non-travellers that I’m afraid drive me nuts!

    1. “You’re so lucky!”

    A comment that can be found on many a backpacker’s Facebook albums. Balderdash is what I say to it! Not to travel is easier than travelling and a lot of people confuse backpackers with being lucky because they’ve taken the decision and made the effort to make their dreams a reality.

    “I don’t have the money”, “I’ve got a job”, “I’ve no one to go with” etc are all lame excuses as far as I’m concerned. If you really want to travel and see what the world has to offer then save money, leave your job and go on your own! I’ve met people in $80,000 of debt who’ve spent 3 years saving a travel fund and delayed loan repayments for a year so they can live their dream. Leaving your job is the easy part and by the time you’re back it’s likely that things will be a lot better than they are now. In fact you have gained new skills or a new direction that help you get a better and more fulfilling job! And backpacking on your own is the only way to travel in my opinion. You’re master of your own destiny and go anywhere you want.

    In essence too many people are ready to put up barriers as to why they can’t do something rather than look as to how something can be achieved. All it requires is a change in mindset.

    2. “It dangerous there”

    Hearing this said is my number one pet peeve. If I’d listened to this while backpacking around South and Central America recently I’d have missed going to Colombia, the jewel in South America’s crown in my opinion – where anything you could ever want to see/do, you can here (trekking to the Lost City, the beautiful town of Salento, the Manizales coffee plantations, the salsa of Cali, the partying and stunning women of Medellin, the culture and beauty of Bogota, the extreme sports of San Gil, the Caribbean beaches of Parque Nacional Tayrona, the diving in Taganga, the history of Cartagena, the Amazon area of Leticia). Colombian people are actually some of the nicest, helpful and most hospitable people I’ve ever met while travelling.

    Colombia isn’t the only country to suffer from the dangerous tag. I could name countless other countries that travellers miss out based on what they or a friend/family can remember reading in the media in the past. Unfortunately people are too quick to dismiss on this basis and don’t take the time to find out more about what a country is like now. Seemingly they then are in the habit of propagating this viewpoint until it becomes ‘fact’.

    The best way I’ve found to illustrate the case for Colombia and countries like it is this. If you only believed what you read in the press about the USA then you wouldn’t go there either. Ater all, who would want to go to a country that declares war on others at the drop of a hat, where kids are all fat and shoot each other at school everyday, where street crime is rife and where you’re probably going to die in a hurricane or forest fire?

    The fact is we know there’s more to the USA as information is more readily available. If people spent a little longer looking into countries where it wasn’t, they may not looked shocked when I tell them that in the five weeks I was in Colombia I didn’t meet one traveller who had either been mugged or had things stolen when there. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying break the bling out, I’m saying even in your own country there are dangers, just use your common sense.


6 Comments for this entry

  • Scott

    I couldn’t have said it better myself. If you really want to do it you’ll find a way. But I think what people actually mean is ” your taking a big risk and I’m not willing to do that” when they say “I could never do that”. Fact is I don’t think anything really changes back home if you leave for 3-12 months. Friends will still be there ( but you’ll have cool stories now ) work is always available and you’ll have new sought after skills such as communication and problem solving.

    No risk, mo reward

    • malph

      I completely agree Scott. What they actually mean is that it’s too hard. It’s easier to maintain the status quo.

      It’s funny how you can be away for so long and, as you say, nothing really changes that much at home. Whereas you have loads for people to catch-up with – well more than a 30 minute chat would cover!

  • mytimetotravel

    So true! All of it.

    I (older, solo, female) mostly hear “you’re so brave” – I usually ask what I’m supposed to be afraid of, but it’s sad that people limit themselves.

    • malph

      At the end of the day the kind of comments you hear are due to ignorance. If people don’t know much about something they tend to fear it rather than try to understand it. As you say, at the end of the day it limits their experiences unfortunately. I only hope that through their often naive viewpoints that they don’t limit others.

  • Joseph Smith

    We may have ranted about this a few times when we were traveling. “You’re so lucky” infuriates me. As does the “I could never do that.” If we took US stories we would never have gone to El Salvador either, which was one of my highlights.

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